I don’t want my babies to grow up!

“I wish my babies would stay little!”

“They’re growing up so fast it makes me cry!”

“My kids just need to STOP IT. I can’t take this whole growing up thing!”

“Before I know it they’re going to be the dreaded TEENAGERS”

It’s almost back to school time, and my FB feed is peppered with comments like this. And it breaks my heart. Because the message it sends to the kids is that they are not as valuable any more as they grow! Every time a child hears “I wish my babies would stay little” they wonder if growing up and doing new things makes them less loved. If growing up fast makes mommy cry, they must have done a bad thing. Truth is, they can’t just STOP IT. Growing up and moving into new phases of life is exactly what they are supposed to do!

When we mourn the normal growth and development of our children, what message does that send? How could it impact their opinions of themselves?

For some reason, our society has no trouble telling new parents to “enjoy every moment!” but somehow as they grow it changes into a communal complaining about kids?

I’m not going to tell you to enjoy every single moment (because it’s totally unrealistic) but I would like to recommend a shift from mourning their growth into living in the moment with our kids. Sure, babyhood is great, we miss the little voices and the small hands in ours, but the enthusiasm and learning and accomplishments of later childhood are definitely to be celebrated! This becomes so vitally important as they enter the teen years. You don’t want your kids to think that you hate teenagers on principle, because that means you hate them and their friends!

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So I find this really funny: Every year, there is a “Dance Your PhD” competition, where people record dance videos explaining their dissertation.

Here’s a very niche wedding business I had never heard of before!

Some gorgeous drone photos of colors, line and shape in the Earth’s geography.

Turns out you can scientifically prove that Kansas is, indeed, flatter than a pancake.

This race is my kinda race, and I seriously admire the way the fundraiser appealed to a whole new demographic!

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Anyone want to pay me to travel and take photos with your stuffed animal? I promise good pictures!

Speaking of photos…One of mine was featured by Lensbaby this month!

The comedy wildlife photography competition always makes me laugh!

And I always love seeing the amazing work in the National Geographic contest, too.

I have a hard time imagining this will ever be a practical method for making furniture, but I am fascinated by this chair farmer.

Crystal Ball Photography tips and tricks

My October creativity project was crystal ball photography, and it was an interesting experiment into what works and what did not. Most of my shots were with the 24-70, as it has the versatility of some close shots and some wide shots. Some things I learned:

Compositionally, you can shoot tightly around the ball, or more wide:

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Sometimes it is nice to line up horizon lines:

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And sometimes you can completely ignore them:

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I personally think either a match or complete mismatch looks better than an almost-but-not-quite match:

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The aperture you choose will make for very different images! You can go for a more abstract background shooting wide open:

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Or a more defined background with a smaller aperture:

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Either way, I find it looks better if the edges of the ball are in focus, and that often takes an aperture of at least f/4 with my camera/lens combo. Here’s one where I didn’t get that and I think it doesn’t look as good:

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Focus on the refraction in the ball rather than the background. Here’s one where I tried it the other way around, and I consider it a flop.

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Sometimes it looks better to flip the image vertically so the glass ball is at the top. I did it with this image, because the background looked more abstract and the refraction makes more sense right side up:

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But this one I chose not to, because there is enough of the background in focus that it made sense to leave it, and I felt my hand looked weird upside down.


Sometimes it makes sense to flip it horizontally, too. In these images, you can see that flipping horizontally makes the words more readable:

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Sometimes holding the ball is the only way to get the composition and refraction you want. But I have found I much prefer images without my hand in them. I haven’t tried using someone else’s hand, but I know I don’t like MY hand in the images as much! I just know that I played with a bunch of different ways of holding my hand and I am not really loving any of them!


The thing about spheres is that they like to roll. Often they’ll roll away from you. It helps to find a small crack, divot or corner to put it in:

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Or you can create your own on smooth surfaces. I’ve brought clear washers, buttons, a key ring, and sometimes just put some dirt or sand underneath it to prop it in place.

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Make sure you polish the ball and don’t leave fingerprints! Sadly, I didn’t notice this one until I got home.

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And last but certainly not least: The ball can make nice starbursts and flares, but it can also set fire to things! Right after I took this shot, I smelled smoke and realized the wooden handrail was burning! It you look closely there are a few wisps of smoke! Thankfully moving the ball made it stop and I dumped some water on it just in case, no real harm done.


Have fun shooting with your crystal ball and don’t set fire to anything!




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A whole beach disappears after a storm. And decades later, a single storm brings it back!

Another beachy story: This man draws labyrinths on the Oregon shore. This video was shot at a beach where I took some photos that now hang in my living room!

Who knew? The very first picture ever sent by phone was birth photography!

I’m no chemist (that’s for sure!) but I truly can appreciate the beauty in these videos of chemical reactions.

I love this sweet story about the town of Providence, RI and the daily ritual they have going with the local children’s hospital.


Monthly Project: More Lensbaby Fisheye!

I tried to move on to a new monthly project for August and September, I really did. But I was loving the fisheye so much I kept shooting with it!

As promised, more from my trip to California:

And on a trip to Utah State University, where I had time to wander around campus while my daughter interviewed for jobs. (She got one!)

But never fear, I promise I won’t be shooting fisheye forever. I spent the whole day yesterday starting my next creativity project, and it’s not fisheye!